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>tfw confessing my love to my oneitis sometime this week
>she's probably going to take me back but the alternative is that I make a fool of myself and (possibly) ostracize myself from my entire group of friends
>couldn't get to sleep last night until 5 in the morning
>going insane with worry about what's going to happen, and feel constantly sick to my stomach thinking about her with the person she's currently half-dating
>she's moving soon so I'll never see her again in a few months if she still won't talk to me
>have to tell her because I'll live the rest of my life regretting it if I don't
I am probably going to move to Indonesia and just be a farmer or some shit if this doesn't work. Maybe I can learn kung fu as well. I promise I'm not in High School, I'd be on 4/8chan if I were

Are you with anyone currently, finalchan? Do you love them? Do they love you?


>Half dating
That alone concerns me anon.


It's sort of a long story
>she's roommates with my friend, his gf, and 2 other guys
>she was groped by a tinder date and now doesn't really trust men, has never had sex as well
>end up going out with her, best date of my life, pretty sure i'm in love with her at this point
>a couple days after this we end up getting into a bad argument because she misinterpreted something i said as me pressuring her into sex
>she stops talking to me altogether
>apparently she got drunk and started crying in front of her roommates because she liked me a lot and it had turned out i was some kind of rapist
>barely even makes eye contact with me anymore, and I don't do anything out of fear of makimg things worse
>this continues for a year, with me basically living in hell and being hopelessly in love with her, regretting what happened more than anything I ever have in my life
>she doesn't date anyone for about 8 months, until last november when she went out with a guy from the internet
>they break up, presumably because he tried to sleep with her
>saw her with some pothead the last time i was over there and felt like i was going to throw up
>he's obviously trying to fuck her, and even though I know she won't sleep with him I realize I have to do something
And now I've resolved to explain myself and tell her i love her like I should have done last fucking year. I know she at least felt the same way I do about her once, and I can only pray she still does.

I'll report back once I do, I'm only really posting about this because I feel I need to talk to SOMEONE.


Godspeed anon.


Let us know what happens my dude. Godspeed and Good luck



Any updates?


I saw her but wasn't able to talk to her because reasons, I'll try again on saturday and we'll see how it goes.

I think she wants to date the other guy and he's trying to fuck her, but it's not going to happen, and if it does they won't have sex.



Honestly anon, sounds like you need to move on.

You can analyze and find reasons for the events of life all you want, but it doesn't make them true for anyone but yourself. The world is compilation of experiences and hers is likely to differ from yours.

Love isn't a one-shot thing. I know it currently feels impossible, but the sooner you accept it is what it is, the healthier you will feel.



Consider moving on dude. Plenty of women out there and emotional connections can't be abone sided thing. It would be healthier to find someone else than try and swoon the one who has eyes for someone else.


I still haven't been able to talk to her, but yeah I'm going to have to move on after this, but it'll probably just be sex. I can't really see loving anyone but her, again I PROMISE I'm not 15 so I'm done romantically.

Don't get the wrong idea here though, she may have already told that other guy to fuck off. And if anything I'm the one interfering in HIS relationship with her, since the only reason we aren't together is that she kind of thinks I'm insane now due to the misunderstanding I mentioned earlier. When our relationship fell apart it kind of fucked her up emotionally, and that was after only one date. Also she's a virgin who's afraid of physical contact with people she doesn't know well enough, due to a tinder date sexually assaulting her. So she's not having sex with ANYONE


Grab your nuts together and at least talk to her dude.


You hesitated a lot, only say her, maybe she is ashamed after the argument because she misinterpreted you and she can't acept her fault and avoid you.


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My suggestion would be straight forward truth. But not in a creepy way. It should be common sense, to speak about your problems with the person that is partially (or fully) responsible for the reason why you feel like that. Maybe she will understand you, maybe she won't, or she will be weirded out by your sudden approach. Women operate by following their own and other people's feelings so keep that always in mind.
Observe her reaction once approached, and act accordingly to how she responds. Just keep your spaghetti in your pants and man up for the girl that you like. It will feel better for you, to get that problem out of your mind
A year is a long time. A lot might have changed. Ask her out for a coffee or something. Chat with her about her life, how she has been doing lately. Keep calm, let the conversations flow naturally and you'll be fine. You can do it, anon. And even if she says no, it's not the end of your life.

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